He barks a lot, steals my toddlers food, gets into the garbage, growls at night at every sound, jumps on people, sheds constantly, growls at you and nips if you try to punish him, and hes just a bad dog. Copyright 2007 - 2023 GoodTherapy, LLC. Well so am i!!!!!! Sam Basso has a unique personal touch. I dont know why people like that breed. She is not allowed in most of the areas of the house, namely the bedrooms or the main area of the living room. Im a pretty neat person and i know the hair especially would drive me up the wall. He can be bad, and I know that, but I dont know what to do anymore. As soon as we leave he destroys the house. The dogs have never been vaccinated, dont get flea treatments or anti worm treatments and are taking up the entire couch and other human furniture and everything is covered in hair. Walking, playing, feeding, etc and I clean more than he does for the fact that animals shed and I feel it is necessary to accommodate. Why on earth would she even allow an argument to start over this. You are so right Pip. I have a medium size dog, 2 & half year old, who has always slept in bed with me. My boyfriend acts like the dog is more than our baby at times. The dog is 100% dependent upon the human and knows it is. It is all over his work clothes because, of course, the dog rides shotgun in the vehicle. You are prioritizing the dog over boyfriend/husband. How many points will I take away? I use to say to those around me, Looks like Buffy decided to go to bed. Period! Thats when I moved into the 2nd bedroom. I denied the idea multiple times just for that reason!! Then he told me that he didnt like my dog sleeping in the bed. We need a support group to help each other! Instead, they are treated like humans and encouraged to develop unhealthy attachments to the owner. the puppy sleeps with us and the ex get jeleous when puppy puts his head on me. There has to be something kind of off about a relationship if there is this much of a disconnect. They are not trained, they dont listen, they poop and pee in the house every day! The huge red flag: a couple of weeks into our relationship my partner said he had to tell me a secret and that he hoped I would understand. Ive tried to love it, but the dog irritates me so much He got a Yorkie I didnt want. My dog is a lab, and she would never be allowed to growl and be aggressive like that. My partners huskies shed like mad, and if he didnt brush them every day there would be a carpet of dog hair everywhere. Now I dont care how much you hate a dog, you do not have the right to do that. I want my fiance to be happy again but I also dont want to give up the dog either. It requires compromise and work. A set of steps were placed on the left side of his bed. He has to have some way to release his energy. Sign up and Get Listed. Ive been married 16 years. It might even be something that helps you decide if you want to take the . And they poop and pee in the house every day and he espects me to be okay with it! He has an English bulldog that is 6 years old and that Ive just grown to dislike over the years. Which ended up in a giant arguement of me supposedly not loving her or respecting her because I stated I no longer would take care of her dog. He in turn is asking me to consider giving up my home, friends, and family to move to a different state to be with him. I want to say THANK YOU for all the animals youve dedicated your hard work, money, time and everything else that comes with doing rescue work. He then told me that he doesnt like dogs, finds it stressful to be around them, is afraid of getting bitten and wont have one in his home. Enough to break the marriage? Are you sure its just fur rather than lack of feeling important to youmore than an animal? Ive always had animals growing up, all indoor BC we couldnt bear to see harm come to any of them. We came to a compromise and agreed to put a dog door in our patio, and that way the dogs have their water and good in there and can still go outside. Me and my wife got our dog after being married for about a year. Getting a dog as a couple can be a really exciting moment in a relationship. I think thats why her previous owners got rid of her they didnt list a reason. Everyone has to put up with your dog but godforbid they talk out against it. I had to get rid of my dog (he was large but very well mannered) and my cat (i had for 7 years ) it was a VERY hard goodbye BUT luckily my mom took them in for me knowing that it was hard and knew she could give them the home and care i would want for them. Were you a dog as a child? Before we even met he has had a medium sized border collie/labrador cross and a cat from a previous relationship. Sorry if this posted more than once, I had some trouble trying to post it. What a waste of my precious time over a bloody brainless mutt that would go with anyone that fed its face and let it be incontinent in public places. If I hadnt told him I wouldnt marry him if the big yellow female lab was allowed to sleep in our bed, she would have. Well that lasts for about a minute as well. My God there are some idiots commenting on this thread. He says he cant get rid of the dog bc it will upset his 22 year old adult son (who doesnt love with us & wont take care of the dog either)! This is what is promoted through the media and this is what many people buy into. I visit friends with cats, but its not the same. Not loved his dog, he was in love with his dog. Sorry, but theres no way I would ever let a dog come between me and my wife, especially one that weighs all of 5 lbs on a good day. He knows his dog drives me crazy and I think tries to make things better but its got to be because he loves me. Some dogs tend to shed terribly with shedding skin in gross amounts. Only a month would be sufficient. Finger crossed for ya! Each has a place for love in your life one animal one human..HELLO! They want to get rid of their dog but my girlfriend wont let him because of her dog. I sit there trying to enjoy dinner while watching her dog on the couch hovering over her plate! There have been instances while I have not been home that my dog will pee on the floor when he wants her to go outside or if he walks into the room (this has happened 5 times over 2 years). He wants to get rid of the dog, but I know that this poor pup just needs some consistency, time, and a shot at unconditional love. We hired a personal trainer who we did lessons with together as a team and we diligently kenneled her to work on house breaking and we let her sleep in the living room. As for your girlfriends nightmare of a dog???? A dog should NEVER get priority over either of those under any circumstance. Then stop taking care of the dog and make your husband do everything until he follows through. Devoted animal lovers sometimes say their pets are like childrenand like children, a furry best friend can cause plenty of strife in a relationship. Thank you all. So then we bought a tether type thing to chain her up. Even more frustrating, this 15 year old pitbull acts no older than 4 or 5 years of age. I feel sorry for this dog, and hope you get the dog placed in a loving home that WANTS him. She was removed. BK you guys have the absolute correct vision of how things should be with a pet. Shes kind of mean to him tells me things like your dog is gross when hes licking himself between the legs (well, thats what dogs do). Then try baby gating her after that with lots of good chew toys and music on he radio versus crating. Everything about her dog does nothing short of threaten to blow my fuse. I had a dog as a kid and loved it until it disappeared one day. My boyfriend has an annoying Jack Russell, that my 9 year old daughter loves & I do at times . she was not socialized properly or disciplined properly. I have to change something in me and my mindset to make this work. I hope I dont meet another one! Why he can see that its gone this far. I am not an animal person. Its important to note these behaviors long predate our relationship: her parents make it clear she has always had issues with valuing her relationship with dogs above people (she does not like cats, or other animals just dogs). It will only get worse as time goes on and he neglects/takes you for granted. Does your husband/boyfriend need to get rid of the dog? I keep telling him that this dog will also calm down and how everybody we meet on walks thinks my dog is amazing, he is happy to see everybody and cuddles for a few minutes and then is ready to move on. The shedding is ridiculous to the point there are tumbleweed hair balls all over. Wink. My pets were part of the family. I can completely relate. He keeps going on about how the dog is older and has always been by his side, I seriously can never win! I do not like dogs, never will.. Needy pathetic, whiny, annoying little jerks. It is nice, and I dont dislike it, but the problem is the hair. The dog is old and likely wont live another year. I tell the dog no, but she just looks at me with clueless look and then runs crazy laps around the apartment. The thing is, like someone has said here, people also lie about their feelings towards pets. He thinks dogs belong outside. My wife and I have had this dog for about a month now. This has helped me understand the situation. Jennifer: Just as I clean the house. Their breath smells likelike rotting roadkill. Ultimately, his dogs comfort has proven to be worth more than mine! Remember its your dogs not his. That was ages ago and I still fester over it. Here are other signs the dog will exhibit if it is prone to separation anxiety. I just dont understand not loving a dog, any dog. I have never felt that way about any animal before, but she is just terrible. Im tired of fighting over her. I really like this girl a lot, and I could see myself marrying her. My husband lost his job and soon after we moved next to his parents and his attitude towards the cat changed. she even calls the dog on sometimes. I hope she knows she will always be my girl and no man will ever change that. I let her out first thing in the morning but if I dont wake up early enough she just goes. I get wanting to have a dog because I like dogs too, but if its your dream in life to have a dog of your own Id say youre not exactly shooting for the stars. Dogs shouldnt be on a human bed anyways, they need to have their own. Ill help brushing her as needed. Dogs behave the way we TRAIN them to behave. If she needs the vet or nails trimmed, I transport her there and pay with his money. Very, very large vocabulary knew the name of each of 13 stuffed animals. The thing Ive learned is that there has to be some give with the take. Besides, when we got together getting a pet of my own, even in spite of my love for them, was not in my plans because I take pet ownership seriously and thought that this was not something one could do on a whim. Hire a trainer: If your husband/boyfriend firmly states get rid of the dog due to this peeing or pooping issue, I highly recommend you invest some money in a dog trainer and perform the training. I like his presence there with me so it works. hes paying more attention to his phone and getting angry. I just cant see that if your guy or girl likes animals that there is going to be some real animosity unless deep inside they really sont like animals at all. Its my philosophy that if you cant spend at least five minutes a day with your pet then its time you dont have one! He wouldnt give me ANY attention. We are also thinking about a baby, but I dont want my children to grow up in a house full with poop and pee and dog hairs. I refuse to leave with a dog that stinks like s***. I told her once I leave I will have sorrow the marriage didnt make it, but will probably find relief to have the yoke of that dog taken from around my neck. Shes sometimes peeing in the bed or pooping on the floor even tho she was outside but I always told myself her behavior is like that because of her negative past. Go out and shoot him?!? But, thats just my opinion, please use your mind to choose your answer not your heart. The first months he really kept saying how he missed his dogs which always made me feel I dont matter. It didnt work well, and now just as a repeat of everything that has been said, is this is what we want for the dogs and ourselves. If this is the case, that can be the reason why your husband/boyfriend needs to rehome the dog. I remember not too long after we had out child, one night she came back out 5 times in a 10-15 minute period to tell the dog good night and I love you. Often the garage can be an example. The wife claims its not fair I came with 2 and she only has one. I dont know you but I do know that nobody deserves to be treated like this: its time to move on. And all I ever hear is the mom talking to the cat or yelling the cats name and it drives me insane because the cat is so misbehaved and treated like a god. Ive been with my boyfriend for two years we currently live in a house with 6 animals 3 cats, a dog, and two rats. Popular doesnt mean its right. its annoying. No I didnt want another dog and didnt have any plan to neuter my dog Caesar. Im trying to work things out but he ignores me. hes 14 so it cant go on forever. NO they are not like kids its not even remotely the same. I cant get the thought out of my head that he got to keep his and i didnt and mine died. It went something like this: I was looking at brochures to get decorating ideas for the babys nursery. He pays more attention to the dog than our baby. This was all up front. Sometimes I can hear him waiting and listening to my partners footsteps. Over the years Ive taken in three rescues that i got as puppies. Their minds arent wired that way! I absolutely LOATHE our dog. My bf always allowed his dog to sleep with him, then we moved in together and I said absolutely not. The only way I see to rectify the situation is to return the dog. Everything she does her licking, her staring, her panting. I got the two cats for my girls. Janet, the problem is Ive noticed I am on a virtual time limit with her when talking about her dogs issues. Any chance of me getting attached to his dog flew out the window when he nipped at my son. Consult your veterinarian: Its always better to chat with your veterinarian in order to make sure if there is any health-related issue that triggers this lousy behavior. I do not want to toss out my engagement but I do not know how much more I can take. I was even letting the dog outside, feeding it etc. I told him that Ive compromised but I cant change my dogs behavior overnight. I was livid, and literally hurt, but didnt want my then girlfriends dog euthanized. He said the dog would look at him at night and then would get off the sofa and go to bed. I was completely unaware of the shedding/stinking issue until we moved in together 6 months ago! Because she looks sad. Its to the point I have to watch him with everything he does. Me and my partner have been together for nine years and I relocated to his country in order to live with him. I was loving. They are not. My boyfriend and I recently (within the past 3 years) bought a home and our first Dog (a rescue) shortly after, my mother fell in love with her, she got one of her own. The dog cant stand up for himself but you can. I should not have to sneak to pet my dog. The dog is constantly shoved down my throat, we cannot go anywhere with out the dog, and cannot plan a vacation or anything else that does not allow pets, his whole world is around that dog. Or who knows, you may both find the break refreshing and a great opportunity to experience a human love relationship more fully, even to the point of extending the dogs vacation. Not only that she forgets how to carry herself as a married woman when shes out and around people. When my ex was abusing me hed try all sorts of tactics to get in my head and even attempted to kidnap my Siberian wolf. He scampers all over it and it is filthy from him.The only brand new mats I was ever able to afford stink of dog and have had puppy wee and poo liberally since the day he was bought home. Its self humiliation and you ARE worth more than that! Our lives are completely dominated by the wants/needs of these two hyper, needy dogs. Just recently I traveled to where he was staying with our travel trailer and working. and our In any case, Im not saying either of you is right/wrong, but just trying to shed some light! I dont want dos on the couch but this dog feels no matter how many times you yell and discipline for it he continues to do it. I am told that I am being stubborn and I am having to deal with cleaning up pee and poo from places around the house and that I am causing more problems than the dog is. its almost as high as the bed. I have two Pitts, one I have had for 5 years, the other for 10 years. I am glad he didnt have kids because if that is any signthose kids would be entitled and unsupervised. The most obvious reason is the lack of training and attention. Educate yourself about their shedding: You should have a sufficient awareness regarding whats normal and whats abnormal. I have started hating that cat, have become extremely resentful and am considering divorce though that would be the last resort. All this with the power of love. What do you even base that arbitrary and subjective remark on anyway? so I was against them being out there while we eat, I needed peace! The shelter lied to us about her age, they said she was 4 ( which is still a trainable age,) well it turned out she is more like 6. If you still cannot someone, its better to interview several people and give the dog to someone you totally believe and feel comfortable with. Its seemed like she was in love with him! Just picture when you have kids. Hes done it before, a few times Its always in the way ugh. Theyre only as good as the partners are willing to invest the time, energy and focus it takes to build the relationship into the wonderful thing it can become. Well, good luck on the whole situation. I have a dashchund and my husband is so jealous of him.he only shouts at him when poor soul does not even do anyyhing wrong. I have two dogs when I met my boyfriend (now husband). They were well trained. Hello Lex, Maybe you could talk to him if you have a fenced yard into doing the same as i did? I get angry because I expect all the attention to be in me. I tried talking to her and proposed putting my two dogs outside and not letting them inside but she said no without hesitating. I loved them, played with them, protected and cared for them, but they never usurped my relationship with a member of my family or a man. Pancho also gets sick about 1X every other month. I prefer cats over dogs Tori and would rather swap them out, lol. Just like this is a huge change for both of you too! I told him it was me or the cat. The day I received an ultimatum about my dogs is the day my SO would be hitting the road. He has rescued two cats and three dogs over the years. Luckily Im seeing my therapist Monday. She did the bed thing ONCE in the beginning and I only got one hour sleep and was a wreck the next day and said never again. (No exaggeration. Did I mention that I have to carry him down the stairs & soon will need to carry up the stairs. I picked them up. I now have to allow one of the dogs to sleep in our bed though she holds it in her arms with her back to me. You can limit it a great deal by daily brushing, but if youve had a pet for years and it is used to certain routines it is very difficult to break them of it without causing even more behavioural problems. My marriage is ending after 4 years. The second cat is his moms and the cat is the most annoying cat ever, the cats been in diapers his whole life.. but he is perfectly capable of going to the litter box he even trys to go while hes wearing his diaper my boyfriends mom changes that cats diaper on the same counter she prepares food with out disinfecting it.. when i addressed my boyfriend he claimed she does.. I LOVE animals, have always had them. When we came back my mother in law, who has always disliked me, claimed that she could never do this favour again because she had become allergic to that particular cat, that he was annoying, loud, etc etc. Not only did the dog precede the boyfriend, but I am completely responsible for him. I never thought in my life I would have to give up my animals. Anyhow, now that he is older, this is our live: he walks up and down the halls at least 3x times per night between midnight and 6:00 am to be let out so we never get a real solid sleep. A bed is a place for a married couple to bond and have intimate times, not a place for animals. I was in a long distance relationship for a very long time and recently uprooted to move all the way across the country to be with my significant other. I feel that the dog is a real liability so I have been able to find a no-kill shelter that agreed to take him. What should I do? My boyfriend has 2 dogs. Hes well trained but has been acting out whenever my husband is involved. I can EMPATHIZE.. If youre the pet lover, ask your partner specifically what the issue is and what would fix it. let me tell you it is a massive pet peeve of mine when people want to compare a human baby to that of an animal. How about helping him with the dog? Do you have friends or family that might take him? I have thought about just waiting it out until he dies but even a couple years of this could seem like a lifetime. Not to mention animals belong outside, they are meant to be outside. I get so frustrated at people who think animals deserve better treatment than people. Give them there own bed!!! He is getting better, but generally, this is the order: dogs, me, kids. Theres no way I would want a dog in the bedroom at all let alone in the same bed, and theres no way I would expect any partner of mine to accept it if I had one. I dont understand it at all! I suffer from asthma (maybe cats.. idk yet) and it can be life threatening yet these animal lovers feel the pets come before human family. He trained him to use a dog litter box & always kept him in a cage ( big outdoor sized cage that he kept in extra bedroom of his house) bc the dog was never actually house trainedpees everywhere, marks territory all over the place, poops on any rug he sees, charges after people, will bite if anyone touches his ears, will actually lay in his littler box full of pee & poop.the definition of nasty & disgusting! BF got mad when he first saw itwhat is that? REALLY. Ive really tried bc I feel terrible for him, but then when we finally moved in together he started to guilt me into doing more things for the dog like walking her on a rotating basis with him. You will NEVER come first. Im want him to be happy but not at the expense of being held captive & having these dogs thrust upon me. The last big fight we had that almost ended our marriage was me telling her she didnt have to take the dog with her everywhere, and needed to get the dog used to being at home by herself so whenever we are both working outside of the home, the dog is not going through separation anxiety. So, she did depend on them and treated them like humans (something she even admitted she has to stop doingtreating them like humans). I liked her at first, even before I met her,my partner used to tell me she was so lovely, also he told me he takes her everywhere with him. Absolutely not. He has also nipped at my son! Ie. Hello DK, Think about whether the dog is too attached to you. He keeps saying that there is something wrong with him. Ive literally slept in my vehicle with my clothes packed many times because I refuse to be humiliated and belittled over a animal. Sorry, my English is not good. The dog just fed his ego. I am actually relieved I left and that was only a few months ago. Our dog is a little sensitive to certain noises and he probably gets a little bored. My first dog was older when they met and therefore very sedate, the second dog was not into people, other dogs, she was very reserved, so having a puppy around freaks him out. Understood. How did you end up going with Beau? List could go on forever I cut dog out completely once to unbearable. In my whole life I have met 2 or 3 people who are pet owners (very responsible ) but do not let the pets on furniture and can distinguish between a person and a pet. Our baby can crawl and the dog is just a waste of space and peace. But the dread of sharing my living space with a dog has started to chip at the excitement of having a baby with the woman I love. Thats borderline mental. So we tried a spray to make the couch taste bad so she wouldnt do it again. He still lived with his family. Your family are people and they obviously know you better than your dog; your ex sounds lucky to be rid of you. You deserve a warm man in your bed who physically and emotionally loves you. I spent the first two months cleaning her hair out of everything. So, puzzle toys are an excellent way to ease the boredom in dogs, especially in puppies. You dont treat them both equally. Like most dog fanatics you dont even make sense: your ex never met your dog yet he attempted to lure her away How could he attempt to lure her away if he never met her? If there is an issue, necessary actions will be taken. You dont have to hate animals to hate your significant others pet. We had a neighbor who had one of those and it drove us crazy. The point is: he has no symptoms of allergy, no sneezing or running nose, has taken a test that came out negative, but yet he insists that his back pain is a different kind of allergic reaction and thats why the cat has to go. You know its a lot when there are animal hair tumbleweeds throughout your home. He always has to cuddle, so we cant really cuddly when I am at her condo because he gets jealous. What makes it all worse is that our dogs can sense my stress and displeasure in them and eventually develop submissive behaviors. There is no way you need to treat an animal like that. As with kitties, which Google it eventually a jr may kill the household cats (its in their breeding!!) I have had dogs and other animals my whole life. If you wanna know about them in detail, please read to the end. Discuss with the husband/boyfriend: He is your love. I went back two days later and retrieved them. But, it is still his dog and he is the one that gets to make that final decision, not you. If the dog is unmannerly and untrained, that is what dog trainers are for. The rats have their own room and are no problem at all very friendly and easy to care for they are my boyfriend and Is pets we currently live with his parents one of the cats is his she is an indoor and outdoor cat, shes very friendly and well behaved also good with children. The dog whines to be requested to get let out or other who knows. Before we got married we had arguments over our dogs how hers belongs inside since he is small and mine outside cuz there big. Never a problem. Its made me realize that Im not alone and that I dont have to see my boyfriends dog like a human the way he does. My world fell apart, I even wrote a childrens book about him to try and cope with my grief. The duvet is covered with hair and dirt. I grew up with dogs, they will not die from having table scraps! Its absolutely disgusting. Having a fenced yard would really help. He doesnt keep you awake, ignore your commands, scratch incessantly at every closed door, refuse to come when hes called or BITE you. So basically, my bf and I live on opposite sides of the house. And dog lovers cant do that. I was utterly devastated. Sam Basso They are the one who do not give the training.Dogs are great animals . She constantly is dropping her slobbery toys in my lap. Dog owners who pretend their mutts children should be banned from dog ownership they pretend no one else harmed yet are likely responsibility of injuries/deaths and I truly believe passive aggressives with strangely inflated misguided egos where they are center. Trying to force me into doing these things with threats and a bunch of sh*t talking to me. Help me here isnt this obvious??? Are you looking for solutions on what to do for this? Shes stubborn and lazy. My boyfriend told me he was going to propose to me soon and even has the ring. He yells at his dog, calls her stupid, or idiot, or worse, when he steps on her feet, or she pulls on her leash we treat our dogs very differently. Melissa, I really feel your pain. 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